Condolence: Dear Julie, We were saddened to hear of your Dad's passing. He was a wonderful person and obviously the best Dad that a child could ask for. His positive influence on all of the NDSS students and other community members will last for generations. His positive, creative, and caring presence with always be with us. All of our love.

Condolence: Mary, Julie, and Andy, So very sorry for your loss. Ernie was one of the kindest, most decent and genuine people I have met. I recall his hilarious performance with fellow VP Beth Alkenbrack (another of the good ones)at the Christmas assembly. "Doin' What Comes Naturally", if I remember correctly, was their much acclaimed rendition. I've submtttied a photo on the "Your Life Moments" site showing my students presenting him with a quilt they made for him when he left NDSS. The expressions on the students' faces say it all. Miss you, Ernie.

Condolence: So sorry to here of Ernie's passing. May your memories of happy times spent together make you smile often. Sheila (Moore) Sinnott

Condolence: My sincere sympathy to Mary and family....Ernie's loss will be felt by all who had the good fortune to know him. A true gentleman who had a smile and kind word to all.

Condolence: Laurie and Andy, Sending my deepest condolences. Thinking of you both. Tracey

Condolence: It is with much sadness that I learned of Ernie's passing! I will remember him as a genuine educator and a good person! He always put students first. One of his quotes I will always remember helped guide me! "God doesn't make any junk" My condolences to Mary and his family. Rest in peace. Mike Dollack

Condolence: Mary, Julie, Andy and Family; Our deepest sympathies to you all at this time. Ernie always had a story to tell and a great sense of humour. Ernie and Mary made me feel right at home when I stayed with them during my teaching round at the high school many years ago. I was so glad we could have a nice phone chat a few weeks ago. Even then, he had a light hearted sense of humour. He will be missed! Take care! Christine & Scott Chambers xo

Condolence: Mary and Family: Saddened to hear of Ernie's passing. A kind and thoughtful gentleman. We always enjoyed our chats, whether in Church or on the street corner. His contribution to so many causes will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Condolence: To Mary and Family; For you and your family you have lost a rock of your family. Ernie - 'Mr. Doughty, Brother Ernie, my friend', he too was my rock, as a kid, as student, as a brother and as a friend Ernie was always able to anchor me when the time was needed. He was there to guide me when times were hard, at school and with life. As a brother he made the loss of my dad and our brother easier. If was not for him we would not of been able to give my dad/our brother a memorable candle lit send off. For that I owe him a great heart-filled thanks. I will always cherish my memories him as an educator, funny/serious/sad . Ernie was always the rock is so many of our lives. He will be missed, but not forgotten. Although he was not a sailor he deserves the following: 'May the wind be at his back with following seas', until we meet again.

Condolence: Ernie had profound influence on all who knew him, the many students he mentored, his working colleagues which is where I fit in, members of the community. His legacy will live on through our memories of him. I feel very privileged to have known him, not only as a teaching colleague at NDSS for several decades, and as director of the community band back in my days of being part of it, but also as friend and fellow historian of local issues. All of us who had associations with him are greatly enriched by his presence in our lives. My deepest sympathies to you Mary,and to your children and grandchildren. Fran Koch

Condolence: My thoughts are with Ernie's family, especially Mary and the kids.

Condolence: My deepest condolences to Mary and her family. I was in the first classes Ernie taught when he came to NDSS to begin the music program and like many of his students there was always a special bond between us. He was a teacher, a mentor and a friend. I always enjoyed his surprise visits when he was travelling to visit family in Ottawa or meeting up at the local playhouse. It was always a joy to reconnect. His humour, energy and friendship will be greatly missed.

Condolence: So sorry for your loss Mary. Ernie was an extraordinary person, multi-talented, always kind, cheerful and made everyone he encountered feel special.. His love for music and family was so evident and he lived life to the fullest! He will always hold a special place in my heart. Hugs and prayers to you all.

Condolence: Dear Mary, We are so sorry to hear of Ernie's passing. He was a wonderful man who always has a smile and a twinkle in his eye. I have always found this quote a comfort while grieving: "I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love." Leo Buscaglia Thinking of you and your family. Karen, John, Cole & Noelle

Condolence: Dear Mary, We are so sorry to hear of Ernie's passing. He was a wonderful man who always has a smile and a twinkle in his eye. I have always found this quote a comfort while grieving: "I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love." Leo Buscaglia Thinking of you and your family. Karen, John, Cole & Noelle

Condolence: Andy & Family; I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your father and I wish you and your family my deepest and heartfelt sympathies at this difficult time. Andy Gillatly

Condolence: Over the years, I have written: "Dear Mr. Doughty, " That was how I began this message! Dear Mrs. Mary and children and grandchildren; I am so VERY sorry for the loss of this wonderful man. Such a gaping hole will be left in your hearts and your lives. He touched us all with his smile, his kindness, his warmth and his humour. He will NEVER be forgotten. My Mom and I are so sorry for your pain and your loss! Jennifer and Lois Thomlison

Condolence: My sincerest sympathies Mary and family. Ernie will not be forgotten, he influenced so many and inspired so many more.Rest in peace Ernie.

Condolence: The sad news that Ernie lost his life crossed the country quickly, Mary. And what a wise, warm, wonderful life it was. Ernie had a generous spirit that all of us will remeber. I hope his shining legacy will comfort you, Andy, Julie and your grandchildren through this tough time. Catherine Alkenbrack

Condolence: So sorry for your loss. Ernie was a teacher in my youth and my boss later in life. He was always the professional but also a wonderful man. I am sure he will be missed by many.

Condolence: Our thoughts are with you and your family Andy. Allow friends and family to help you through these difficult times. Pat and Larry

Condolence: Thoughts & prayers to the the Doughty family.Mr.Doughty was the epitome of a music teacher @ NDSS.My sisters;Diane,Lois and I were truly blessed to have him share his passion for music while we were members of the band in the 70's.

Condolence: Our deepest condolences to the Doughty family. Ernie was an amazing role model to hundreds of NDSS students. His commitment to the Napanee community was inspiring. But the Ernie that Rob and I knew best was as Andy’s dad. Quick with a smile and a twinkle of mischief in his eye. Ernie lived his life with a passion to learn. We will miss his stories of his adventures. Hoping Mary, Andy and Laurie, Julie and Greg, and grandchildren can find comfort in their memories. Hugs, Rob and Laurie Brookfield

Condolence: Our deepest condolences Mary, to you and your family. Ernie was a wonderful man who inspired and encouraged all of us. He will be missed. Michele & Chris Stafford

Condolence: This is a sad day for so many. Ernie touched so many of our lives, opening our eyes to vast new worlds of music and travel. He kept us in school, and inspired us to create better communities, no matter where in the world we lived. Bless you Ernie. Mary and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Margot (Moffat) Swinburnson